Sadly, I can share with everyone in the world to share all rich habits, success skills, wealth suggestions, health research, etc., but there are still only a small part of them.
Why are few people willing to take action and change their lives?
Because changes are difficult, only a small part can change what needs to be changed to improve their lives.
Why do few people do not want to do this job to change their living environment?
In fact, there are many reasons.
Reason # 1 You need to hit the bottom of the rock
Some people need to hit the bottom of the rock before doing what they need to do. When you encounter the bottom of the rock, it usually means that two things happen:
- Those who love and care for you have given you the last pass. Ignore it, they will abandon you and let you stay alone.
- Those who love and care about you have abandoned you. You are alone.
Reason # 2 requires external motivation
Some people need external motivation. This external source can be a person, book, movie, seminar, blog post, and even podcasts. Tony Robbins thanked these people for their bread.
Reason # 3 Need a mentor
People who respect and admire need to promote some people. This may be parents, spouses, children, bosses, grandparents, friends, etc.
You may wait for a long time if you choose to wait for the bottom of the rock or to motivate you or influential people. If this internal or external motivation will never appear, it is impossible to change.
So, what can you do?
You need to be the CEO of Life. You need to control your life.
Here are some tools/ideas to help you control your life.
dream
Dreaming is an interesting activity. I have received a lot of comments from readers/reservations participating in dreams. They all tell me how much they like to dream.
Dreaming is interesting because it forces you to use your imagination as he was a child. Dreaming is a four -step process. It full of vitality of your imagination and make you motivated to change your life. This is a process:
- Create an ideal future life-pretending to be the script of the next ten years, and you are writing journals. Detailed description of every amazing thing about your ideals and future life. In addition, describe your journey in the past ten years-what happened in the past ten years? Take 500-1,000 words. The script must be two parts:
- The first part = describes your amazing future life: your house, how much money you make, how much money you make, how much wealth you have accumulated, where you live, vacation, vacation, and so on.
- Part II = Describes how you reach it-what you did in the past decade, which helped you create an ideal life. What dreams and goals you realize/achieve. What kind of success and achievement do you achieve? How do you change as a person in the past ten years?
- Determine every dream-define every specific dream, which is part of your ideal future life.
- Create a goal around each dream-to establish personal goals around each dream. In order to achieve specific dreams, many goals may be required. Once these goals are achieved, your dream will be realized. See each dream as a step on the ladder. Whenever you realize your dreams, you climb that ladder and dream until you reach the top. The highest is your ideal, future life.
- Following the habit of developing targets-the last step requires you to exercise daily habits (target habits). These habits are closer to realizing each goal when completing daily.
New experimental activity
When you try new events, you will eventually discover the activities you really like; you are in a flowing state. When you do what you like, trigger the flow state. It is also triggered when any new event is easier to compare with others.
When you like to do something, the brain will notify you by release dopamine. Dopamine explosion is the neon light logo of the brain, and you may have found a natural talent.
When you are in a state of flow, you can not have to rest for many hours. Moreover, when you have to get rid of the event, you will find yourself constantly thinking about this activity. The flow state is another neon light logo, and you may have discovered the natural talent.
Each of us has a natural talent, which is unique to each of us. When you conceive, your naturally can engrave your DNA in your DNA. Those who find their natural talents do not have to work, because they like their “work” very much.
Find a mentor
The mentor is an individual who actively guides you in the right direction. The instructor teaches you what to do and nothing. They are the sound you must make. The mentor makes you motivated because they care about you. And because they care, they are the best accountable partners you can have.
It’s not easy to find a mentor. For most people, the only lens with a mentor is parents. When your parents fail, you have to find a mentor.
With the mentor everywhere. They are working. They are in the board of directors of non -profit organizations in the local community. They can be found in books, podcasts, and watching TedX or YouTube videos.
Don’t wait for motivation to pursue change.
Make changes into daily habits.
